MOC: [[Moral Compass]]
On freedom of speech see Aurelius 2024, First Book - III.
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According to the stoic [[Marcus Aurelius]] you should allow other's freedom of speech even though you disagree with their opinion.
Personally I find it difficult not to enter conflictual argumentation when someone around me says something that I disagree with. I find it often natural to point out flaws in one's judgement.
It is true that it can sometimes lead to harsh discussion during which I get emotional if not dishonest. Besides and while I often try to be constructive, I also think I mostly look to win the discussion and submit an opponent by changing their mind... Which is not a very healthy behaviour.
However I believe if constructive conversations.
A good rule of thumb could be:
- Don't point out that someone is wrong if you have no chance of changing their mind.
- Leave the discussion the second you're starting to get emotional about it.
- If the person you're debating with starts to get emotional or stubborn about it, let it be and leave the discussion.